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 I love you, Curadh.

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 I love you, Baehr.

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 This is episode 150 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast.

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 We're going to talk about 150 episodes.

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 Yeah, 150 episodes.

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 Can you believe it?

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 Yeah.

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 Because I did all the work.

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 Yeah, you do.

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 I just get on here and talk.

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 It's been a trip, though, hasn't it?

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 Mm-hmm.

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 So, we started, what, during the pandemic?

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 Towards the end of the pandemic, I had just gotten laid off.

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 Okay.

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 And I wanted a project to do where I could put it on my resume.

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 And this podcast, I mean, I do every bit.

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 It's not like I put Podbean on my phone or Freaker or one of those apps.

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 I record it myself.

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 I edit it myself.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 I do all the metadata.

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 I do the transcription, the webpage, everything.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 For me, it's not one of those turn it on and record.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 Yeah, and I just come over and sit down and talk for 10 minutes.

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 For 20, 30 minutes, that's it.

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 So, well.

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 Something else we should probably talk about.

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 What's that?

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 Quite a coincidence.

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 We were married 10 years ago, almost to the day.

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 What, for today, you mean?

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 Yes.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 Yep.

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 Happy anniversary.

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 Yep.

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 Can you believe that's been that long?

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 Um, I can't remember when you weren't my husband anymore.

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 So, yeah.

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 It's like it's been our whole lives.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 It's been a long way.

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 But it seems quite quick, though, too.

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 In some ways.

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 In some ways, yeah.

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 So, I'm still very happy.

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 I still love you very much.

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 You've regretted it every second, haven't you?

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 No, I have not.

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 Not at all.

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 Not one bit.

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 So, I hope you feel the same way.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 Good.

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 It was really shortly after marriage was legally available to us.

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 Well, it's, yeah.

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 And then it became federally recognized in July.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 No, June 15th.

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 June 15th, it was very recognized federally.

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 So, we got married May 30th.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 And then, yep.

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 And then, 15 days later, 16 days later, it was federally recognized.

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 And I don't think either one of us ever even thought it was going to be possible.

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 No, we didn't expect it.

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 So, that was a very pleasant surprise.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 I remember you calling me at work, and you were in tears.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 So, but, yeah, you were in tears saying you never thought you'd see this day.

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 So, but here we are.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 And hopefully it'll stay that way.

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 Meaning, meaning.

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 I, I, I.

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 Meaning someone stays and take our ability.

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 The, the fact that 70% of people are in favor of gay marriage.

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 I think is really the only reason they haven't tried to repeal it.

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 Since Trump came into office.

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 Well, let's hopefully see it stays that way.

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 When you do surveys among Republicans, though, that drops down to like 30%.

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 That didn't get me started.

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 So, well.

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 Well, 10 years is, um, that's quite an accomplishment.

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 Quite a bit.

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 I, I, I kind of feel like a role model or something.

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 I mean, its, gay community doesn't have really, really, it doesn't seem to have a relationship

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 that lasts as long as it takes.

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 He'd say, he'd say straight relationships.

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 Well, um, because all, everything is stacked against you.

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 I, I remember some kind of a conference and, um, they had this religious person or he was

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 organizations.

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 Pray the gay away.

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 And he said, um, you, you, you're, you gay people, your, your relationships never last.

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 And he said, at that time, gay marriage was not possible.

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 He said, and you deny us the very thing that it would take to make that possible.

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 What was that?

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 To, to, to keep people together.

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 On one hand, they're saying, you know, you, your relationships never last.

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 On the other hand, they were denied us the ability to do it.

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 To, to, to, to, yeah.

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 So, kind of, they're, you know, kicking you too.

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 Yeah, that's, no bueno.

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 And, um, we have a, a booth at the Pride Festival this year for this podcast.

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 I, I'd kind of like to, I don't know.

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 Um, put up a banner or something, 10-year anniversary.

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 Do you want to say, hmm?

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 You want to let people in on that?

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 I mean, it's kind of personal, huh?

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 I mean, it's.

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 Yes, we will.

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 No, we can, I mean, we can.

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 We can talk about it.

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 It's just, I, I find it kind of personal.

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 I, I think people ought to know that there are 10-year anniversaries now.

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 That's a, I mean, it's a good idea.

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 So, you want to do that?

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 Something like that, yeah.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 So, back to 150 episodes.

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 For, I don't know, a couple of months now, there has been a Best Of section on our podcast

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 web page because, um, I, I'm sure people would come to the podcast web page and see

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 150 episodes and go, I don't even know where to start and not even want to try.

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 Yeah, that's true.

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 So, I set apart a page where.

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 What I think our best episodes are.

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 That people can go and listen to, or if they have a aggregator, they can look up those

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 numbers and download those particular episodes.

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 So, this list is off of that web page.

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 And this is what you decided some of the best ones were?

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 I, I can't really say they're in any particular order, though.

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 So, it looks like, um, you want to go through and talk about which ones you have on the list?

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 Well, it looks like the first one you have on the list is Star Wars Plant or Prescription

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 Medicine.

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 Um, that's Star Wars Planet.

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 That's Planet.

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 I'm sorry.

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 Yeah, Star Wars Planet or Prescription Medicine.

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 And that was, that was a lot of work for me to set up.

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 Oh, I bet.

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 I, I, I basically had to get two lists.

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 So, one, a list of Prescription Medicines and the other was a list of Star Wars Planets.

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 And look each one of them up and, and put them in a format where, where you could guess

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 And it's a lot harder than you would think.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 There are a lot of Star Wars Planets that sound like Medicines and there's a lot of

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 Medicines that sound like Star Wars Planets.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

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 I remember doing that.

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 It's very true.

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 Very, very true.

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 Um, and then we have Basketball Terminology.

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 Basketball, you do remember that episode?

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 Mm-hmm.

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 I think that was one of the most hilarious ones we've ever had.

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 Was this the one where, yeah, this is the one we just did recently where you were setting

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 me up pretty much the whole time.

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 It was terms that announcers, basketball announcers would use, well, during the games that all

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 sounded like...

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 Like, porn titles.

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 Yeah, you're right.

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 Ha, ha, ha.

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 That was a very funny episode.

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 In fact, I think our, our best episodes are where we do lists.

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 You think so?

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 There's a lot of them on here.

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 On this list.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 Well, let's, maybe we should start doing more lists.

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 I guess we should.

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 I mean, it's, it's obvious that they're, they're popular.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 So.

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 Well, for us.

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 For us, yeah.

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 We have no idea.

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 What people like and what people don't.

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 So.

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 This list is just, you know, what stood out to me.

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 So let us know if you have any ideas or what you like.

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 Especially if there's one that's not on this list.

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 That ought to go on that page.

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 So.

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 Um, episode 143, gay celebrity top or bottom.

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 Ha, ha, ha.

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 That's what's funny.

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 And again, another list.

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 Mm-hmm.

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 And that was, that was an amazing episode.

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 Especially when we got to the lesbians, because it's hard to tell whether a lesbian is top

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 or bottom.

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 That or if they're just an angry woman.

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 So.

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 But, yeah.

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 And how can you be a top or bottom if you scissor?

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 And, and how do you define what a gay celebrity is?

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 Yeah.

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 I mean, well, I think all of that list was people who are openly gay, but how do you

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 decide if they're a celebrity or not?

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 That's true.

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 Well, before being gay.

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 You kind of made you a celebrity.

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 Now it's just, you know what I mean?

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 Now they're just gay.

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 Now they're just gay.

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 Like, um, what was it?

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 Graham Norton once said, um, no, he's not gay.

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 He's just British.

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 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

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 God.

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 He's such an ass.

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 Ha, ha, ha.

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 Wow.

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 All right.

270
00:10:35.516 --> 00:10:37.776
 Paranormal Bears.

271
00:10:37.776 --> 00:10:39.396
 Which episode was that?

272
00:10:39.396 --> 00:10:42.296
 Isn't that the one we talked about gay ghosts and stuff?

273
00:10:42.656 --> 00:10:44.016
 That's when we went out to the...

274
00:10:44.016 --> 00:10:45.736
 That was episode 138.

275
00:10:45.736 --> 00:10:46.276
 Hmm.

276
00:10:46.276 --> 00:10:47.236
 Oh, I'm sorry.

277
00:10:47.236 --> 00:10:48.256
 I see what you're saying.

278
00:10:48.256 --> 00:10:49.936
 Yeah, episode 138.

279
00:10:49.936 --> 00:10:52.656
 And that's when we went out to, uh...

280
00:10:52.656 --> 00:10:55.416
 To the Kansas Aviation Museum.

281
00:10:55.416 --> 00:10:57.956
 They had a paranormal event.

282
00:10:57.956 --> 00:11:04.436
 There was like, what, maybe 30 people there?

283
00:11:04.436 --> 00:11:05.476
 30, 40 people, yeah.

284
00:11:05.476 --> 00:11:07.616
 I think they had sold out.

285
00:11:07.616 --> 00:11:08.196
 Hmm.

286
00:11:08.196 --> 00:11:09.716
 Split up into three groups.

287
00:11:09.716 --> 00:11:12.636
 We got stuck in the elevator for the longest time.

288
00:11:12.636 --> 00:11:13.816
 Mm-hmm.

289
00:11:13.816 --> 00:11:16.316
 And you don't do well in elevators.

290
00:11:16.316 --> 00:11:17.336
 Mm-hmm.

291
00:11:17.336 --> 00:11:20.236
 You did pretty well then, so...

292
00:11:20.236 --> 00:11:20.636
 Well...

293
00:11:20.636 --> 00:11:23.356
 I was forced to.

294
00:11:23.356 --> 00:11:23.856
 Yeah.

295
00:11:23.856 --> 00:11:26.336
 But, I mean, at least you didn't lose your mind.

296
00:11:26.336 --> 00:11:26.796
 Mm-hmm.

297
00:11:26.796 --> 00:11:28.576
 So...

298
00:11:28.576 --> 00:11:31.636
 Yeah, freaking out in an elevator with eight other people, that...

299
00:11:31.636 --> 00:11:34.156
 That wouldn't have made me very popular.

300
00:11:34.156 --> 00:11:36.496
 No, it would have probably put a damper on the evening, too.

301
00:11:36.496 --> 00:11:37.016
 Mm-hmm.

302
00:11:37.016 --> 00:11:40.936
 Do you remember episode 134, Gay or Nay?

303
00:11:40.936 --> 00:11:41.936
 I don't...

304
00:11:41.936 --> 00:11:42.476
 I don't...

305
00:11:42.476 --> 00:11:46.596
 I don't remember how we did it.

306
00:11:46.596 --> 00:11:50.756
 It was a list of celebrities, and we speculated on whether they were gay or not.

307
00:11:50.756 --> 00:11:51.876
 Hmm.

308
00:11:51.876 --> 00:11:53.256
 Yeah, I don't...

309
00:11:53.256 --> 00:11:54.116
 I don't remember doing it.

310
00:11:54.116 --> 00:11:56.496
 It seems...

311
00:11:56.496 --> 00:11:58.176
 Another one of those list ones.

312
00:11:58.176 --> 00:11:58.636
 Yeah.

313
00:11:58.636 --> 00:12:01.496
 And those are always hilarious.

314
00:12:01.496 --> 00:12:02.616
 Mm-hmm.

315
00:12:02.616 --> 00:12:04.836
 Stop doing that.

316
00:12:04.836 --> 00:12:06.056
 I have an itch on my eye.

317
00:12:06.056 --> 00:12:08.916
 Let me scratch it.

318
00:12:08.916 --> 00:12:10.776
 Wait until we're done, and then you can scratch it.

319
00:12:10.776 --> 00:12:11.396
 I can't.

320
00:12:11.396 --> 00:12:12.256
 It's now.

321
00:12:12.256 --> 00:12:13.996
 You're going to have to edit this anyway.

322
00:12:13.996 --> 00:12:17.636
 There.

323
00:12:17.636 --> 00:12:19.296
 All right.

324
00:12:19.296 --> 00:12:21.176
 Your turn.

325
00:12:21.176 --> 00:12:24.856
 So, Gay or Nay, and we're...

326
00:12:24.856 --> 00:12:26.456
 Okay, this was a funny episode.

327
00:12:26.456 --> 00:12:27.276
 Episode 112.

328
00:12:27.276 --> 00:12:29.696
 Stupid Trow Questions.

329
00:12:29.696 --> 00:12:35.256
 Things that heterosexuals ask us.

330
00:12:35.256 --> 00:12:35.776
 Yeah.

331
00:12:35.776 --> 00:12:37.916
 That was a fun episode, though.

332
00:12:37.916 --> 00:12:40.296
 And very revealing.

333
00:12:40.296 --> 00:12:41.296
 I think...

334
00:12:41.296 --> 00:12:49.256
 I think, in some ways, heterosexuals are both fascinated and frightened by us at the same

335
00:12:49.256 --> 00:12:49.596
 time.

336
00:12:49.596 --> 00:12:50.116
 Mm-hmm.

337
00:12:50.116 --> 00:12:52.656
 Like, we can wear...

338
00:12:52.656 --> 00:12:55.196
 Like, rub it off on them or something like that.

339
00:12:55.196 --> 00:12:56.896
 Here, take some of the gay.

340
00:12:56.896 --> 00:13:00.156
 Pray away that gay.

341
00:13:00.156 --> 00:13:00.996
 Pray away, yeah.

342
00:13:00.996 --> 00:13:03.636
 Well, that's what needs to happen for the next month.

343
00:13:03.636 --> 00:13:04.016
 Mm.

344
00:13:04.016 --> 00:13:07.596
 So, yeah, happy Pride Month, everybody.

345
00:13:07.596 --> 00:13:08.856
 Oh, yeah.

346
00:13:08.856 --> 00:13:10.556
 So...

347
00:13:10.556 --> 00:13:15.916
 150 episodes and a 10-year anniversary and gay pride all at the same time.

348
00:13:15.916 --> 00:13:16.976
 We're going to burst.

349
00:13:16.976 --> 00:13:17.716
 Yep.

350
00:13:17.716 --> 00:13:18.756
 Good.

351
00:13:18.756 --> 00:13:20.636
 It's about time it goes our way.

352
00:13:20.636 --> 00:13:20.696
 Okay.

353
00:13:20.696 --> 00:13:26.496
 Episode 97, The Queen's English.

354
00:13:26.496 --> 00:13:28.216
 That was an interesting episode.

355
00:13:28.216 --> 00:13:29.476
 You remember that one?

356
00:13:29.476 --> 00:13:29.996
 Mm-hmm.

357
00:13:29.996 --> 00:13:32.396
 That was kind of fun.

358
00:13:32.396 --> 00:13:37.636
 Really, all of these best ones are all lists.

359
00:13:37.636 --> 00:13:38.396
 Mm-hmm.

360
00:13:39.816 --> 00:13:41.036
 I wonder why we do it that way.

361
00:13:41.036 --> 00:13:45.076
 I mean, I wonder why they're so much better than our other ones.

362
00:13:45.076 --> 00:13:45.836
 I mean, it's good.

363
00:13:45.836 --> 00:13:46.816
 Well, I don't know.

364
00:13:46.816 --> 00:13:51.556
 When we sit and talk, we're kind of boring people.

365
00:13:51.556 --> 00:13:54.536
 How dare you say that?

366
00:13:54.536 --> 00:13:55.196
 I'm kidding.

367
00:13:55.196 --> 00:13:58.956
 Yeah, there's not much going on in our lives.

368
00:13:58.956 --> 00:13:59.496
 Mm-hmm.

369
00:13:59.496 --> 00:14:00.856
 So...

370
00:14:00.856 --> 00:14:04.276
 So, we can think of catty responses to lists.

371
00:14:04.276 --> 00:14:04.796
 Yeah.

372
00:14:04.796 --> 00:14:06.856
 But...

373
00:14:06.856 --> 00:14:08.116
 So, we have The Queen's English.

374
00:14:08.116 --> 00:14:09.656
 How about...

375
00:14:09.656 --> 00:14:12.976
 Episode 19, Colton Underwood Gay Test.

376
00:14:12.976 --> 00:14:14.096
 Do you remember that one?

377
00:14:14.096 --> 00:14:14.696
 Yes, I do.

378
00:14:14.696 --> 00:14:17.356
 Because I remember...

379
00:14:17.356 --> 00:14:17.776
 Oh, yeah.

380
00:14:17.776 --> 00:14:18.796
 Because it was...

381
00:14:18.796 --> 00:14:19.956
 The list was ridiculous.

382
00:14:19.956 --> 00:14:20.836
 And it was...

383
00:14:20.836 --> 00:14:24.396
 It just came out when we did it, so...

384
00:14:24.396 --> 00:14:26.916
 But, yeah, that was the first year that we did the podcast.

385
00:14:26.916 --> 00:14:29.356
 Yeah, it would have been.

386
00:14:29.356 --> 00:14:31.216
 So...

387
00:14:31.216 --> 00:14:31.876
 Yeah.

388
00:14:31.876 --> 00:14:34.336
 I wonder what he's up to now.

389
00:14:34.336 --> 00:14:38.676
 He got married and has kids.

390
00:14:39.496 --> 00:14:39.656
 Really?

391
00:14:39.656 --> 00:14:41.456
 Hmm.

392
00:14:41.456 --> 00:14:48.276
 So, he still wants to lead a heterosexual life, I guess.

393
00:14:48.276 --> 00:14:49.616
 Oh, good for him.

394
00:14:49.616 --> 00:14:50.796
 He just married a man, is all.

395
00:14:50.796 --> 00:14:51.756
 Oh, good for him.

396
00:14:51.756 --> 00:14:53.276
 I mean, it makes him happy.

397
00:14:53.276 --> 00:14:53.816
 Hmm.

398
00:14:53.816 --> 00:14:54.676
 Don't you think?

399
00:14:54.676 --> 00:14:55.676
 I suppose.

400
00:14:55.676 --> 00:14:56.136
 Yeah.

401
00:14:56.136 --> 00:14:59.316
 So...

402
00:14:59.316 --> 00:15:03.216
 Episode 6, Star Wars vs. Star Trek.

403
00:15:03.216 --> 00:15:06.976
 Really?

404
00:15:06.976 --> 00:15:09.336
 Since I'm the Star Wars fan,

405
00:15:09.336 --> 00:15:11.436
 and you're a Star Trek fan, we really...

406
00:15:11.436 --> 00:15:11.796
 Mm-hmm.

407
00:15:11.796 --> 00:15:13.596
 It's like the battle of both of us.

408
00:15:13.596 --> 00:15:14.476
 Do you remember?

409
00:15:14.476 --> 00:15:15.616
 No, I don't.

410
00:15:15.616 --> 00:15:16.836
 I really don't.

411
00:15:16.836 --> 00:15:19.956
 That was the first few weeks we did the podcast.

412
00:15:19.956 --> 00:15:21.876
 Do you remember it?

413
00:15:21.876 --> 00:15:22.676
 Oh, yeah.

414
00:15:22.676 --> 00:15:23.216
 Really?

415
00:15:23.216 --> 00:15:24.996
 I remember them all.

416
00:15:24.996 --> 00:15:27.536
 Did you win the argument?

417
00:15:27.536 --> 00:15:29.076
 Of course.

418
00:15:29.076 --> 00:15:30.676
 Yeah.

419
00:15:30.676 --> 00:15:34.436
 Because Star Trek is so much superior to Star Wars.

420
00:15:34.436 --> 00:15:36.976
 You sound like a Star Trek fan when you talk like that.

421
00:15:39.176 --> 00:15:41.296
 That's all I have to say.

422
00:15:41.296 --> 00:15:45.916
 All righty.

423
00:15:45.916 --> 00:15:50.656
 How about Episode 61, Pop Culture References?

424
00:15:50.656 --> 00:15:52.716
 Again, a list.

425
00:15:52.716 --> 00:15:53.376
 Mm-hmm.

426
00:15:53.376 --> 00:15:59.296
 And I think I was kind of surprised at how many of those we had no idea what they were.

427
00:15:59.296 --> 00:16:00.896
 The Pop Culture References?

428
00:16:00.896 --> 00:16:01.496
 Uh-huh.

429
00:16:01.496 --> 00:16:02.056
 Yeah.

430
00:16:02.056 --> 00:16:02.536
 Oh, yeah.

431
00:16:02.536 --> 00:16:04.236
 We were clueless.

432
00:16:04.236 --> 00:16:05.736
 We were, yeah.

433
00:16:05.736 --> 00:16:08.356
 We didn't know what the hell was going on.

434
00:16:08.356 --> 00:16:11.496
 Yeah, I think that episode made me feel old.

435
00:16:11.496 --> 00:16:16.876
 As opposed to the other 149 that don't make you feel old?

436
00:16:16.876 --> 00:16:19.916
 Well, this one was just blatantly clear that I'm not hip anymore.

437
00:16:19.916 --> 00:16:22.696
 And saying I'm not hip anymore is not hip.

438
00:16:22.696 --> 00:16:29.136
 And I was never, ever hip, so no biggie for me, I guess.

439
00:16:29.136 --> 00:16:34.596
 Episode 11, Corona-19 Virus.

440
00:16:34.596 --> 00:16:36.476
 That was a very sad episode.

441
00:16:36.476 --> 00:16:38.136
 I remember that.

442
00:16:38.136 --> 00:16:51.136
 Well, the local library has a media archive about COVID, and our episode is in that archive.

443
00:16:51.136 --> 00:16:51.556
 Oh, really?

444
00:16:51.556 --> 00:16:52.356
 Oh, really?

445
00:16:52.356 --> 00:16:52.856
 Uh-huh.

446
00:16:52.856 --> 00:16:53.416
 Okay.

447
00:16:53.416 --> 00:16:55.576
 And I thought Trump got rid of it.

448
00:16:55.576 --> 00:16:58.116
 Got rid of our episode?

449
00:16:58.116 --> 00:16:59.136
 How would he do that?

450
00:16:59.136 --> 00:17:02.436
 I thought you said that he didn't get rid of a bunch of DEI stuff.

451
00:17:02.436 --> 00:17:03.936
 I thought you said he...

452
00:17:03.936 --> 00:17:04.456
 Never mind.

453
00:17:04.456 --> 00:17:05.536
 Never mind.

454
00:17:05.536 --> 00:17:06.456
 Hmm.

455
00:17:06.456 --> 00:17:07.976
 Because you said...

456
00:17:07.976 --> 00:17:10.056
 Well, I hope they didn't delete our episode.

457
00:17:10.056 --> 00:17:11.356
 It's still on our website.

458
00:17:11.356 --> 00:17:15.836
 Well, you said that he deleted one of our episodes, or you couldn't find it somewhere, that they

459
00:17:15.836 --> 00:17:18.516
 recorded it, and we put it somewhere, and you couldn't find it, that it was gone.

460
00:17:18.516 --> 00:17:20.036
 Hmm.

461
00:17:20.036 --> 00:17:21.256
 I don't remember.

462
00:17:21.256 --> 00:17:22.896
 And you said that's a few weeks back.

463
00:17:22.896 --> 00:17:23.296
 Yeah.

464
00:17:23.296 --> 00:17:25.356
 I don't think that was the library.

465
00:17:25.356 --> 00:17:26.356
 I think that was...

466
00:17:26.356 --> 00:17:33.356
 There's another archive of podcasts.

467
00:17:33.356 --> 00:17:34.596
 Okay.

468
00:17:34.596 --> 00:17:37.816
 And I know that our podcast...

469
00:17:37.816 --> 00:17:42.496
 The whole podcast was in that archive, but I think the last time I looked, it was gone.

470
00:17:42.496 --> 00:17:43.096
 Okay.

471
00:17:43.096 --> 00:17:44.696
 The whole podcast was gone.

472
00:17:44.696 --> 00:17:45.176
 Okay.

473
00:17:45.176 --> 00:17:46.516
 Hmm.

474
00:17:46.516 --> 00:17:52.376
 As long as I'm willing to pay the bill for hosting, it'll be...

475
00:17:52.376 --> 00:17:53.556
 They really can't do anything, yeah.

476
00:17:53.556 --> 00:17:53.916
 Yeah.

477
00:17:53.916 --> 00:17:55.416
 It'll be around forever.

478
00:17:55.416 --> 00:17:56.076
 Okay.

479
00:17:56.076 --> 00:18:01.396
 Episode 49, Survivor's Guilt.

480
00:18:01.396 --> 00:18:07.796
 That was probably the saddest episode we did.

481
00:18:07.796 --> 00:18:09.096
 The Survivor's Guilt.

482
00:18:09.096 --> 00:18:10.056
 Which one was this about?

483
00:18:10.056 --> 00:18:12.036
 About surviving AIDS.

484
00:18:12.036 --> 00:18:12.756
 Oh, it's okay.

485
00:18:12.756 --> 00:18:13.136
 That's right.

486
00:18:13.136 --> 00:18:13.776
 That's what I thought.

487
00:18:13.776 --> 00:18:14.016
 Yeah.

488
00:18:14.016 --> 00:18:16.396
 That was a sad, sad episode.

489
00:18:16.396 --> 00:18:17.136
 Mm-hmm.

490
00:18:17.136 --> 00:18:23.836
 So, something that needs to be talked about, but it's never happy.

491
00:18:23.836 --> 00:18:29.636
 And I'm pretty sure I talked about when I was raped in that episode, too.

492
00:18:29.636 --> 00:18:30.216
 I believe so.

493
00:18:30.216 --> 00:18:30.936
 Yeah.

494
00:18:30.936 --> 00:18:32.236
 It was a very upsetting episode.

495
00:18:32.236 --> 00:18:36.276
 But it needs to exist.

496
00:18:36.276 --> 00:18:37.116
 Oh, I know.

497
00:18:37.116 --> 00:18:37.636
 Yeah.

498
00:18:37.636 --> 00:18:40.716
 Our lives aren't all sunshine and rainbows.

499
00:18:40.716 --> 00:18:41.136
 What?

500
00:18:41.136 --> 00:18:42.596
 What?

501
00:18:42.596 --> 00:18:43.916
 I thought it was.

502
00:18:43.916 --> 00:18:45.116
 No, I'm kidding.

503
00:18:45.116 --> 00:18:46.776
 No, we have a very good life, though.

504
00:18:46.776 --> 00:18:48.656
 We got each other.

505
00:18:48.656 --> 00:18:49.416
 Mm-hmm.

506
00:18:49.416 --> 00:18:50.536
 So...

507
00:18:50.536 --> 00:18:53.696
 And I'm glad we have this podcast.

508
00:18:53.696 --> 00:18:54.856
 Yeah.

509
00:18:54.856 --> 00:18:57.756
 To kind of chronicle our lives.

510
00:18:57.756 --> 00:18:58.156
 Yeah.

511
00:18:58.156 --> 00:18:59.176
 Yeah, it is.

512
00:18:59.176 --> 00:19:01.776
 I mean, it really did chronicle the last five years of our lives.

513
00:19:01.776 --> 00:19:02.276
 Mm-hmm.

514
00:19:02.276 --> 00:19:05.116
 We had my leg reduction again.

515
00:19:05.116 --> 00:19:06.096
 Mm-hmm.

516
00:19:06.096 --> 00:19:06.836
 So, that was on there.

517
00:19:06.836 --> 00:19:07.476
 That was one of the...

518
00:19:07.476 --> 00:19:09.896
 We talked about when they did that surgery.

519
00:19:09.896 --> 00:19:10.396
 Mm-hmm.

520
00:19:10.396 --> 00:19:12.156
 So, I mean, there's been a lot of stuff.

521
00:19:12.156 --> 00:19:13.176
 I had eye surgery.

522
00:19:13.176 --> 00:19:14.576
 You had your gallbladder surgery.

523
00:19:14.576 --> 00:19:15.536
 Mm-hmm.

524
00:19:15.536 --> 00:19:19.616
 So, everything in our lives that happened in the past five years has really been on this podcast.

525
00:19:19.616 --> 00:19:20.396
 Mm-hmm.

526
00:19:20.396 --> 00:19:21.256
 So...

527
00:19:21.256 --> 00:19:22.856
 We talked about them all.

528
00:19:22.856 --> 00:19:23.436
 Mm-hmm.

529
00:19:23.436 --> 00:19:25.496
 Is that it?

530
00:19:25.496 --> 00:19:26.696
 That's it.

531
00:19:26.696 --> 00:19:27.336
 Okay.

532
00:19:27.336 --> 00:19:30.376
 That's all that's on the Best Of webpage.

533
00:19:30.376 --> 00:19:30.956
 Okay.

534
00:19:30.956 --> 00:19:36.916
 And as you said a little while ago, if anybody has one that they remember,

535
00:19:37.316 --> 00:19:40.316
 that needs to be on that list, please email us.

536
00:19:40.316 --> 00:19:41.256
 Yeah, let us know.

537
00:19:41.256 --> 00:19:43.116
 Because we love...

538
00:19:43.116 --> 00:19:45.776
 We give out the email address at the end of every episode.

539
00:19:45.776 --> 00:19:46.296
 Yeah.

540
00:19:46.296 --> 00:19:47.656
 We love the feedback.

541
00:19:47.656 --> 00:19:50.336
 So, do you have a joke for us this week?

542
00:19:50.336 --> 00:19:51.296
 Yes, I do.

543
00:19:51.296 --> 00:19:51.656
 Okay.

544
00:19:51.656 --> 00:19:56.416
 Did you know that the podcast about bread making ended?

545
00:19:56.416 --> 00:19:57.656
 Mm-hmm.

546
00:19:57.656 --> 00:19:59.956
 Was getting stale.

547
00:19:59.956 --> 00:20:05.096
 That was not one of your best efforts.

548
00:20:07.156 --> 00:20:09.056
 All right.

549
00:20:09.056 --> 00:20:13.676
 I'll give you a C-minus on that one.

550
00:20:13.676 --> 00:20:17.176
 Well, you can do the outro this time.

551
00:20:17.176 --> 00:20:17.996
 Okay.

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 This was episode 150 of the Baehr Curadh Podcast.

553
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 This is Curadh.

554
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 And this is Baehr.

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 Goodbye.

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 Goodbye.

557
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 Bye.

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 Bye.

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 Bye.